Your little one’s first day at nursery is a huge milestone that can be both exciting and nerve-wrecking. You want to ensure they’re ready for this new adventure while also making the transition as smooth as possible. It’s natural for both you and your child to experience some first-day jitters.
However, with a bit of preparation and a positive outlook, you can make this milestone a positive experience for everyone involved. Keep reading for some tips and advice on how to prepare for your child’s first day at nursery, including some pointers on essential items to pack for your child’s nursery bag.
Tips for preparing your child for nursery
Preparing your child for their first day at nursery involves both practical and emotional preparation. As well as ensuring their bags are packed, it’s important to equip them with the emotional tools they need to navigate this new experience with confidence. Here are some tips on preparing your child for nursery.
Encourage positive talk about nursery
Children often mirror their parents’ emotions, and so if you approach nursery in a positive way, your child is more likely to do the same. With that in mind, you should talk about nursery with enthusiasm and focus on the fun aspects of it.
Whether it’s talking about playing with new toys, or making new friends, taking a positive approach to nursery provides a framework for your little one to begin associating nursery with excitement rather than fear. It also allows for a smoother transition and a positive attitude towards this new adventure.
Establish a morning routine
When it comes to preparing for nursery, a predictable morning routine can make all the difference. You could start implementing a nursery-like routine a few weeks before they start, which could include waking up at a certain time, having breakfast, and getting dressed at the same time each day.
And it’s not just a morning routine you could create – you could incorporate activities that will be part of their nursery day, such as story time, singing, or outdoor play for example. Familiarity breeds comfort, so the closer their home routine aligns with their nursery schedule, the less daunting the transition will be in that crucial first week.
Practice separation in small steps
If your child isn’t used to being away from you, consider starting with short periods of separation. This could mean having a family member or friend to look after them for a couple of hours while you run errands. As they get used to these shorter bursts of separation, you can gradually increase the time, and eventually work up to full days.
This gradual approach helps your child understand that you always return to them, helping to build their confidence and ease separation anxiety. Remember that positive reinforcement goes a long way, so after each successful time of separation, no matter how short, praise them.
Visit the nursery beforehand
Most nurseries, including Stepping Stones, encourage booking a trial session. It’s a great way for preparing for nursery, familiarising your child with a new setting, and helping them feel more at ease. You can explore the play areas together, introduce your child to key staff members, and observe how your child reacts to the nursery.
This is also a good opportunity to build excitement and create positive associations with a new setting. By allowing your child to familiarise themselves with a new environment, it will make the transition smoother on their first day of nursery.
Tips for preparing parents for nursery
While much of the focus is on your child when preparing for nursery, it’s equally important to prepare yourself for this new chapter. It’s natural to experience a mix of emotions – excitement, anxiety, and possibly even some guilt. Here are some tips on how to prepare yourself emotionally and logistically for your child’s first day at nursery.
Build a relationship with nursery staff
Nursery staff are your allies in this journey, which is why it’s important to build a relationship with them. When you drop off or pick up your child, take a moment to chat with them, ask them how your child is getting on, seek advice, or raise any concerns with them.
Your child’s well-being is a shared responsibility, and the nursery staff will welcome your interest. Remember, open communication is key to ensuring a positive experience for everyone, including you, your child, and nursery staff.
Stay positive and supportive during the transition period
Your attitude towards nursery will rub off on your child, so it’s vital to maintain a positive outlook. Even if you are feeling anxious, try to showcase a sense of confidence and excitement about starting nursery.
Be sure to offer plenty of reassurance and encouragement, letting your child know that it’s okay to feel a bit nervous or unsure. Patience is key, and it’s important to remember that each child adapts to new situations at their own pace – so be patient and stay positive.
Speak with other parents
Speaking with other parents who have gone through, or are going through, the same experience can provide invaluable support. Sharing your experiences with others can help you feel less alone and gain new perspectives. There are plenty of ways you can do this, from joining online forums or social media groups to reaching out to family members, friends, or parents at the school gates.
The shared experience with other parents, particularly those who are navigating the emotional rollercoaster of leaving their toddler in someone else’s care for the first time, can be incredibly reassuring.
Essential items to pack for your child’s nursery bag
Packing your child’s bag for their first day at nursery is an important part of the preparation process. Having all the essentials on hand ensures your little one’s comfort and well-being throughout their first day. Some essential items to pack include:
- Your child’s favourite toy or blanket for a comforting reassurance.
- Spare practical and comfortable clothing in case there are any spillages or accidents.
- Any necessary medication for allergies for example (ensure you have clearly communicated any allergies to the nursery beforehand).
- Additional snacks and water (most nurseries will provide food and water, but be sure to check their policies first and pack accordingly).
It’s also wise to label all items clearly so you can make sure your child knows exactly what’s theirs, and any belongings can be returned to you if they get lost.
Book a visit to our day nursery today
Preparing for your child’s first day at nursery can be a mix of excitement and anxiety. It’s a significant milestone for both you and your child, but it’s important to stay positive throughout the process.
At Stepping Stones, we offer trial sessions for both parent and child so you can come and see our day nursery for yourself. We pride ourselves on ensuring a home-from-home environment in our purpose-built facilities, and our caring and qualified staff are on hand to answer any questions you may have. Don’t hesitate to book a visit today, or contact us if you’d like to learn more about how we can give your little one the best possible start in life.
FAQs about preparing for nursery
What should I do if my child cries on the first day?
It’s perfectly normal for children to cry on their first day of nursery. If they do, make sure you offer reassurance, a quick cuddle, and remind them of their favourite toy they have packed. You’ll be surprised at how much a bright smile and words of encouragement can work wonders.
Is there anything specific I should discuss with the nursery staff before my child starts?
Before their first day, there are some important things to discuss with nursery staff, such as any allergies your child has, specific routines (especially nap times), and your child’s likes and dislikes. This ensures they can enhance the well-being of your child during their first day at nursery.
What are some ways to ease separation anxiety on the first day of nursery?
Some ways you can combat separation anxiety include practising short goodbyes at home, reassuring your little one that you’ll be back to pick them up, and maintaining a positive approach on the fun activities awaiting them at nursery.